Sex Communication Checklist Glossary

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Shapeshifter Play

3 hours or more of all Sensations

A combination of sensations, woven together in a way that offers the most pleasure possible for 3 hours or more!

Try it! Pleasure stamina is the game here – how much will your body hold when you satisfy its every craving through every imaginable way of being touched and held?

Combinations of all of the above

A combination of experiences between kinky, sexual, sensual, and energetic.

Try it! Maybe you’ve tried a few by now that you know you like, or you’re feeling experimental! Pick several that turn you on, and let yourself play within their interplay.

Stacking of all of the above

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Spending a whole day in pleasure

The shapeshifter type is fulfilled by so many types of touch, sensation, and relationship, so let your imagination lead you as you craft your day of pleasure. There is no limit to what you can create for yourself!

Try it! Notice what items in this list excite you the most, or if you read through and began linking some activities with others. Those will be great places to start as you build your pleasure vocabulary and design days full of play.

Pleasure Waving

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4-6 Handed Massage

Massage given by 2-3 people, with the opportunity to feel a simultaneous mix of touches that would satisfy the energetic, the sensual, or the kinky type. All at once, you can be scratched, stroked, hovered over, breathed across, and you get to direct and ask for exactly what you want!

Try it! If you already know what types of touch you like, you can offer guidance to your partners. If not, let them explore (within your consent), and tell them when anything feels good – any touch in any place – so that you can receive the most pleasurable experience possible.

Threesome

Engaging in sex with two other people, in addition to yourself. Maybe you are in a couple that wants to bring in a third partner, or you’re interested in entering into a couple dynamic, or you are three individuals wanting to play together. You can all focus on one person, or let the attention shift naturally between the three. You can also play with voyeurism and exhibitionism.

Try it! If you’re adding in sexual partners, always use protection and/or get STI/STD testing done ahead of time to ensure safe play! Beyond that, your imagination and desire are your playground. What are the ways you could experience more pleasure with a third lover involved? Let that be your starting point, and explore from there.

Foursome

Engaging in sex with three other people, in addition to yourself. This can look like couples having sex in the same spaces, trading partners, all focusing on one person, or any variation in between. You can also play with voyeurism and exhibitionism.

Try it! If you’re adding in sexual partners, always use protection and/or get STI/STD testing done ahead of time to ensure safe play! Beyond that, your imagination and desire are your playground. What are the ways you could experience more pleasure with two more lovers involved? Let that be your starting point, and explore from there.

Threesome with a man

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Threesome with a woman

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Double Penetration

Inserting two body parts or toys into a person’s body to enhance pleasure. Things inserted could include penises, tongues, fingers, toys. They can be inserted orally, vaginally, or anally.

Try it! This is a great way to increase overall sensation! You can play with this between two partners or more, which increases the possibility of ways to penetrate. Possibilities are vaginal penetration with a penis or strap on in addition to anal penetration with a finger or butt plug. With more people involved, you can explore simultaneous oral and vaginal or anal penetration. You can also play with this solo, using dildos and butt plugs for your own penetration! Let your pleasure be your guide!

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